Wednesday, August 18, 2004

New Invention

A'uzubillahhiminsyaitan nirrojim..
Bismillahirrahman nirahim

Salam buat semua..
It has been quite sometimes since the last time i wrote something here. I thought that i could spend sometimes to share my thought with my fellow friends, but.. kitakan hanya merancang..

Oo yea, last time i mentioned about 'the creation of Hawa from the left rib of Adam' that was being stated in the Bible, not in the Holy Quran. Actually, in the Sahih Bukhari (one of the 5 largest/biggest hadith source) it was mentioned in 2 hadith(2 ayat) that state this:

Hadis #1: Narrator: AbuHurayrah
Hadith_No: 7.113
Full_text: Allah's Apostle (peace_be_upon_him) said, "The woman is like a rib; if you try to straighten her, she will break. So if you want to get benefit from her, do so while she still has some crookedness."

Hadis #2: Narrator: AbuHurayrah
Hadith_No: 7.114
Full_text:The Prophet (peace_be_upon_him) said, "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should not hurt (trouble) his neighbour. And I advise you to take care of the women, for they are created from a rib and the most crooked portion of the rib is its upper part. If you try to straighten it, it will break, and if you leave it, it will remain crooked, so I urge you to take care of the women.

This thing i found out in an article (click here to read the article). What was written there i believe is enough to clarify how and why i raised up this issue again in two-posting. I am not someone who is so knowledgable in the things about Islam, but i wish to share and get feedback from my friends who knew better than i do. In 1400 years, the muslims have been influenced with so many stories, narrations, mystic etc etc that sometimes we found it is hard to denied as it has been part and parcel of our culture; our blood and mind. To interfere with something new, i believe is not wrong as Rasulullah SAW as well came up with 'new religion' (as according to Ignorance Arab Quraish) as long as it does not at all fall out from The Holy Al-Quran. Wa'allahualam.

Ops.. my lunch time is over already. I got to go back to my work. So, utk semua take good care and wish u all the best. May Allah SWT always be with you, proctect you and guide you on the right path. Bye~~


Friday, August 06, 2004


Salam buat semua.

Tak banyak yang nak aku perkatakan. I am quite 'busy' lately. Doing work and personal things. I was on leave yesterday. Seems like it is still hard for me to keep on updating my blog although with simple words (maybe the main reason is that i have a lotttt to think and to tell out..). Actually, i was thinking about writting something this morning but it turned out to be blog reading instead. Wow, looks like a 'friend' in this blog community has new admirer on his blog, the one that we were once called cikgu (since he was the first one introduce us about blogging..hehe:P) .

Sometimes i thought that i might actually have a syndrom (if i can call it by that name), or is it a special disease? I thought i might actually have a 'heart disease' the kind of disease mentioned by Rasulullah SAW as kecintaan kepada dunia, diri sendiri etc. part of it is riak kepada kelebihan diri, feel you are superior than anyone. But then when i found out about the article, i try to istigfar myself and try to see whether i have fall onto the criteria. Al-Hamdulillah. so far i managed to control myself. Then, what is it actually happening to me until i said i might have a syndrom? Well, i am alwayss LOVE to debate with people as i believe it is not just to see whether u-are-wrong-and-i-am-right, but it is far beyond that. I believe that I do not know much and thru this kind of discussion i might learn something good for my knowledge. I love to ask people a lot of question until i feel there is no more doubt inside my heart. If i knew something, i would like to share it as well who knows actually i am getting the wrong-side of information and if i do not know anything, i will say "i don't know about it" and keep on listening to whateva being told. There are few people who feel offended with my way (and i am sorry about that, it is not my intention to look little/down on people). Maybe the syndrom is actually a gift from Allah SWT as I am not going to talk too much as i need the strength to talk as few as possible and as whateva needed only. Hehe, you may want to knw this but some of my friends already saw it by their eyes: my body temperature suddenly drop, i felt cold and shaking the whole body. This is most of the time happen when i am in the religious discussion.. Maybe itulah peringatan dr Allah SWT untuk diri sendiri.. :)

I have just learn that kejadian Hawa dr tulang rusuk kiri Adam a.s was never mentioned in the al-Quran (not sure about the Hadis, if anyone has it can you give it to me?). It is just mentioned in the al-Quran that Hawa dijadikan dr Adam but from and how is not mentioned. The statement that Hawa is from tulang rusuk was mentioned in the Bible. How true it is, i am still looking forward for the evidence and will come back to all of u once i found it out. :)

Oh, heard that Telekom Malaysia is going to work 5-days-a-week, from 8.30pm - 5.30 pm (duhh! lewatnyerr.. but the saturday is going to be a WONDERful day). Still, i have a lot to say. But, still my time is limited. Wonder how come some people has sooo much of their own time and still get thingss done while some people has no time but still cannot get things done (just like me!).

So, i shall say goodbye and hope to see all of you back in one piece next week. Bye all!!
~~Selamat Pengantin Baru to Ecah & Ayiel also.. ~~

Monday, August 02, 2004

Working Life

Yesterday I watched 3R: issue on working life, in which I already planned to watch as the ads showed this time issue was about hectic and busy working life until you have no time for your ownself. Indirectly terasa jugalah dengan isu kali ni, but then after watched it out I realized that it seems to be a norm in our community for working so hard. Something so funny about this ‘talk’ was the 3 characters represent by Cik Minah Control : a woman who cannot trust anyone in doing works and she wants to do everything herself; Cik Minah Gila Kerja : a woman who always has no time for herself, her family and her friends. All in her mind is work, work and work only; and lastly Cik Minah Pemalu : a woman who is sooo shy and mix among her limited number of friends known from her workplace only. The way of managing each lifestyle is by make a list and try to distribute the works among colleagues while not doing things alone, divide time to work and time for personal matters as work is not as important as the people around you that you love, and try to join organizations such as kelas memasak, badminton, yoga etc. where you can meet and have new friends and share your hobbies. Interaction within group is easier to start than face-to-face conversation.

By the way, a thank for my friend for the courage and support that made me take another step in gaining more knowledge. It seems to be ‘centuries’ for me to fulfil my dream of doing it. So funny isn’t it someone like me suddenly said that I a afraid to go on. Al-Hamdulillah, maybe I can’t contribute much due to my limited knowledge and short term memories but hopefully I will gain as much as possible. I am no better than you friend. Thank you for leading the way for me, at least I knew someone who is really doing things that I wish I could do earlier.

Yeah, it is not good to depend on somebody to make ur own decision. But, sometimes the feeling of inferiority or not good enough make us feel better (at least, if not that comfortable) to have someone we knew to support and show us the strength to face the world. I might look tough, but I am a human being who still have the ‘what is..’ thought in my mind.. Opss, it is already time to go back.. So, friends hope that I can keep on updating myself with this blog as I have a lot to share and a lot to tell you out there. However, in the end it will be in the Hands of The Almighty Allah SWT to determine everything.. kan;)

Bye all..